Over the past couple of months, there have been two incidents within the online vegan community that have been bothering me. As vegans, we stand for a few big causes: animal rights, environmentalism, and health/nutrition (and more, I could easily break down into sub-categories). We scoff at defensive omnivores who give us a hard time about human rights, because damn straight we care about humans too. And yet....
I am more than just a vegan, and I stand for more than just "vegan" issues. One thing that really bothers me about our society is that with labels comes separation. (Thank you to Pema for inspiring me to really think about these issues.) Vegan. Yogi. Partier. Pothead. Doctor. Lawyer. Lobbyist. Surfer. Techie. Gay. Runner. Corporate. Mother. Artist. All of these labels that can be broken down into even more sub-labels really mean nothing. Aren't we all just people? Don't we all want the same things, to be happy, healthy, safe, and loved? How do these labels make life better? Do we really need more separation between us?
So here's what's been bothering me.
Remember Tasha? Formerly known as the Voracious Vegan? Back in November, she spoke out about no longer being vegan and was hit with such a mean-spirited backlash that it was shocking. And after multiple threats on her blog and on twitter, she's disappeared. I can only imagine how difficult it was for her to write that post, let alone to come to the decision that a vegan diet was not optimal for her health (to an extent, based on my research and the research of my friends, I do find that hard to believe, though we are all different and perhaps a vegan diet is not for everyone). Yes, she put it out there to the blogosphere, and that does make it the business of her readers, but really, what right do we have to judge her personal decision?
And then, last month, there was some drama between two amazing cookbook authors, Isa Moskowitz and Lindsay (Happy Herbivore) Nixon (both of whom I really respect--I own and love all of Isa's books, and every one of Lindsay's recipes I've tried has been a winner). Basically, one was accused of plagiarizing the other's ideas. They both said what they had to say via their blogs and/or forums, and as the saying goes, somewhere between those two sides lies the truth. But it got really ugly when their followers started ganging up via amazon book reviews. Like I said, I really respect both of these authors, so this made me really sad. And when both of their cookbooks arrived (I ordered them prior to the drama), I couldn't bring myself to cook anything from them (fortunately, I also received Terry Hope Romero's awesome Viva Vegan on the same day, and also fortunately, I've since happily cooked from both Isa and Lindsay's books). And there it is. More separation. Between people who should be allies. Why?
I try to just go with the flow. I work really hard to not force my viewpoint on my omnivore friends: I am happy to simply cook good vegan food for them and share nutrition and food policy info if they ask (or via facebook). I blog about food and gratitude and positivity; I engage in the twitterverse, and I love that it gives me a vegan community that I don't really have in Miami Beach. I try to keep controversy out of my blog. But I couldn't sit back and watch any longer. Dearest vegan blogger friends, I hope that you're still my friends.
xoxo,
LJ
We all have our own opinions about these fractures in the vegan community, but above all I applaud you for letting your opinion be known. I don't know how anyone could begrudge you that :)
ReplyDeleteI miss Vegan Yum Yum! She's like the vegan Bobby Fischer.
Well-spoken, LJ! I've noticed the same issues of separation within the online veg community that have stemmed from the incidents you mentioned--it's a sad thing to see--and am relieved that someone had the courage to speak up about it. I admire and thank you for it.
ReplyDeleteAnd of course we're still friends! :)
Tiffany
Thank you Jenn and Tiffany. Your comments, as well as your friendship, really mean a lot to me. I'd been sitting on this for a couple of weeks, and today I just really needed to say it
ReplyDeleteAnd as far as Vegan Yum Yum...her celery remoulade is probably one of my favorite appetizers!
xoxo,
LJ
I heart you, LJ! Half the reason I've barely posted lately is because the Lindsay/Isa tiff really bothered me, and I've been a little turned off from blogging... controversy makes my stomach squirm, even when I'm not directly involved at all. :(
ReplyDeleteI'm so with you - I go with the flow, makin' yummy vegan food for friends and living my beliefs every day. Basically, my motto in life is "live and let live," and I wish more people gave that a shot!
Anyway... thanks for your super honest post. I appreciate it!
Well spoken my dear.
ReplyDeleteI guess I've been in a little bubble and missed all of this drama, but that is ok by me. I save my drama for the stage!!
I believe that we all need to do what is right for our bodies and our health. I agree that a vegan diet has the potential to be a very healthy one. That being said, one could eat french fries, vegan "cheez" laden pizza and vegan baked goods all day, all because it still contained no animal products. I love to see more and more people eating a more plant-focused/based diet because it is amazing on so many levels. Part of the reason why I loved the doc "Fresh" over "Food Inc" because it just got you thinking about where your food came from, how it was raised and highlighted the benefits of eating more plants!
As for the cookbook drama, wow, so high school. Plagarism is absolutely wrong, but I could see how there could be some grey area. That would be fore the writers and their respective legal teams to sort out and maybe for the rest of everyone to steer clear of.
I love you positivity and enthusiasm for all things vegan and am happy to be part of your little community all the way up here in Toronto.
Kelly, I heart you too! And I know what you mean about that squirmy feeling. I love that your motto is "live and let live"--I fee the exact same way. Thank you.
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LJ
Thank you, Ashley, and yes, the stage is exactly where drama belongs!
ReplyDeleteI haven't seen the documentary, "Fresh." I'll add it to my queue. :) And yes, very high school...and as an English teacher for 13 years, I agree with you re plagiarism--it can be very, very, very grey. So I'm with you on the steering clear--I'm happy that they both have great recipes to share!
Thank you for being part of my community!
xoxo,
LJ
Amen. Why can't we all just get along? I agree, it is hard to watch when vegans don't support one another. There are so few of us and we do need to be allies. Not in a war against omnivores, but as a support network for one another.
ReplyDeleteI think this is a very wise post. I like controversy when it makes us think, but it's terrible to see it when it's just hurtful. It's so much nicer to support each other.
ReplyDeleteWell said.
Nice post, LJ. I had no idea of all the drama. We're too old for that aren't we?! xo
ReplyDeleteGood for you for venting it out!
ReplyDeleteI barely recall the Voracious Vegan stuff. I just remember unsubscribing from the blog because I wasn't interested in chicken pictures and recipes popping up in my reader. That's my personal reading choice, no judgment on her choice.
Re: the cookbook stuff. Don't pay much attention to that, either. I have both cookbooks, love them both. One of the authors is a personal friend. Perhaps we feel a bit above it all, living the anti-cruelty lives we're trying to live but, hey, people are human and competitive feelings are real. I choose to stay out of the drama. I have a few other things in my life I'd prefer to worry about and, more importantly, I'm too busy cooking recipes from both of their books ;)
Great discussion, LJ. Thanks!
Thank you, Lee. I love the point you make about NOT being in a "war against omnivores." We really ARE a support group for each other!
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LJ
Thank you, Kari. It really IS so much nicer to support each other. If I wrote a cookbook, which I'm hoping to someday really do, I'd really want the support of the vegan community, and I'd be devastated if I didn't have it.
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LJ
Thanks Aimee. Yep, we are definitely too old for that. Which is why I was nervous about posting this--I didn't want to be flamed on my own blog, and I finished high school 20 years ago, and I have no desire to go back! ;)
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LJ
Exactly, JL...I stopped subscribing to her blog for the same reason, but I certainly wasn't shaking my fist at her either. Good point about us all being human--I see the same kind of competitive drama in the yoga community, which is equally as absurd, but like you said, we are all human. Thank you.
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LJ
Well, can I just say, as one of your real-life friends, you are an inspiration. I can testify, as one of your omnivore friends, that you truly practice what you preach. I love you so much! I appreciate all of your support and encouragement in the areas of my health and food choices, and I am so thankful that you've chosen to let me be who I am and love me across the great food divide because I can't imagine NOT being your friend. You and I are both so much more than our food choices, right? I sure hope so. To any who might be unsure of LJ's perspective, I can also testify that I have never really been interested in a vegan lifestyle or vegan food...until her love and generous spirit came into my life. While I'm not ready to take the plunge, I am more aware and more connected to others because of all that she stands for, and more importantly, all that she lives out and shares in her everyday life.
ReplyDeleteSo here's to you, LJ! You're a vegan rockstar full of love for animals AND people and we love you back!!!
Hey LJ,
ReplyDeleteI'm with you - I try to live with compassion in all my relationships and interaction. Life is too short to be filled with sending hateful emails, judging others decisions (without walking in their shoes), and worrying about living your passion because someone else might have already walked that path.
Anyway, isn't Viva Vegan awesome? I tested recipes for Terry and loved every one.
That whole cookbook exchange made me really uncomfortable, and basically made me never want to write a cookbook, ever. It's a shame, because I really like both of them, but I wish there could have been a little more grown-up-ness from all parties involved.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Amber. I love our friendship SOOOOO much. We are so different that it surprises people how close we are. We could very easily fall into our "labels" and be so separate from each other, but we've chosen to rise above.
ReplyDeleteLove you to bits!
xoxo,
LJ
Sing it sister! I just don't get it. Humans are animals too. How can we vow to be good and non-harming to animals and then unselect humans from that list? And, we don't say "well, I'll only be nice to the pigs that I like." So, why is it ok to be an asshat to people you don't agree with? Can't the compassion and love extend to all beings?
ReplyDeleteThank you, Lisa. I obviously couldn't agree with you more. Life IS too short for this kind of behavior!
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LJ
Thank you, Jodie. I still want to write a cookbook, and I have an idea that's pretty unique, but it still makes me nervous. Yes, let's all be a little more grown up! ;)
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LJ
Exactly, Lorin. "Lokah samastah sukhino bhavantu"--may ALL beings be happy and free. And LOL @ "asshat."
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LJ
I must be the only vegan that missed the cookbook controversy. The funny thing is that there are really very few original recipes since most are inspired from omni recipes meaning there isn't much variation. It is crazy that people would get freaked out about it. Sounds to me like people need to take a breath and relax.
ReplyDeleteI have had my share of angry vegans too because I am "too healthy". In the end I can't be bothered with the nonesense since I have my hands full dealing with life and death health issues. People are curious creatures and frequently not in a good way.
One of the things I love about your blog is the sense of positivity. Keep doing what you are doing spreading the love and ignore the other stuff.
hugs to you,
Ali
Thank you, Ali. I agree. And there are really only so many ways to make seitan, for example. ;) And I love your healthy blog--it's SUCH an inspiration!
ReplyDeleteAlso, thank you, re: my positivity. "Spreading the love" is exactly what I focus on, and exactly why I had to post this. :)
xoxo,
LJ